MOTIVATIONAL MOMENT - There are times in life where it seems like we are consistently on the losing end of things. Life is designed as a conundrum of so many experiences: some positive, some negative but all for our benefit. Use the experiences of life to shift your life and to build you into what you desire to see. The reality is growth comes because of opposing force, without the opposition there will be no growth. You cannot be receptive to growth without being receptive to the opposition that causes that growth!
There was a song many years ago that said "sweep around your own front door before you try to sweep around mine." I think that song is a fitting song for today's harsh truth. We are living in a digital world that is socialized and connected. Not only do we now have access to the internet for information, we have access to the internet on particular things in this planet, sooner than later, people will be able look up you body temperature and any issues with your body by simply typing in your name. It's just not about reference anymore, it's about the internet of things specifically: PEOPLE!
Think about it for a moment, what types of shows are mostly on tv now? I mean it started with the Real World so many years ago but now just about every tv show is a reality based show peering behind the closed doors of people's lives and making it into a public spectacle. People are hating people simply based upon the characters that people play on reality based tv. Now, do not get me wrong, I love reality based tv just like anyone else, however, why can we not get something authentic, real, and not so full of drama? Why? Because we love drama, we love the read, we love the issues surrounding people's lives. It makes us feel better about our own lives and makes us seem better than some of these people because we see all their "behind the door drama" so we judge them when in reality if people put up some camera's in some of our homes we wouldn't be able to show face in our local community anymore!
What am I getting at...we ALL have issues and not only do we all have issues, we all have things that we need to work on not for other people's sake, but for our own sake! If our goal is to honestly be better people we must...
SEEK OUT THE FAULTS WITHIN OURSELVES AND CORRECT THEM!
Yes, we have to be introspective about our own issues and even when we seemingly have no way of correcting them, our goal must be seeking to correct them by any means necessary.
The reality is that many times the faults we find in others that we detest are not too far from the faults that we have in ourselves that we do not desire to acknowledge. We can no longer escape through the blame game, we must work through our own issues. Paul said to work out your own soul salvation with fear and trembling! What Paul was in essence saying to look at yourself and figure out the issue within you. It will cause fear but in the end you will be a better person!
So today I challenge everyone to look at yourself instead of lying to yourself! That's what we do instead of looking at ourselves, we look at the epitome of what we desire! Our harsh truth today is that you are liar and you are the first partaker of your personal lie! Stop lying to yourself and assume responsibility for becoming a better person FOR YOU!
Here's to exposure to the lie and liar and healing through the hurt of the false self...
Your Friend...The "Inner Healing" Lifestyle Coach
Tanya A. Alkhaliq, ThD
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Tanya Alkhaliq is an intersex black woman who is a Life Redesign Expert
with an emphasis in intersex issues and counseling while specializing
in self-identity development, relationship issues, gender and sexual
understandings, spiritual reformations, career choices, young-adult
developmental issues, and issues pertaining to fear.Tanya A. Alkhaliq, ThD
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